Who Are We Accountable To?
Jul 28th, 2007 by David S
I believe that the idea that, “each Christian needs to make himself accountable to another”, is the cause of great pain within the church today.
You have heard it said, and perhaps have said it yourself: “As a believer, you need to have someone close to you hold you accountable.”
The general intent of this instruction is to bring about an effect that is to be desired by everyone. That is, each person, being held accountable to another, is protected and kept safe from rushing head-long into sinful behaviors. So, the hope is that through this accountability to another, one will be less likely to engage in sinful action.
It is my intent to show that not only does this not work, but actually produces the opposite effect of what is desired; and that with frightful consequences.
I have already shown that on yhe surface this idea of “being made accountable to another” does indeed appear to be a good thing. But when looked at more closely and through the lense of faith and by observing the consequences of this teaching, it shows itself to be anti-Christian.
We know that as far as the New Testament is concerned the emphasis regarding “accountability” is usually (and perhaps always) spoken of in ways such as: “and the whole world held accountable to God.” Accountability is always stressed between God and man; that man is accountable to God. This is so important in gaining an eternal perspective. It is not about what man thinks, but about what God thinks.
“Who are you to judge someone else’s servant? To his own master he stands or falls. And he will stand, for the Lord is able to make him stand.” Rm 14:4
Remember, your fellow believers are just as riddled with sin as you are. We all judge imperfectly. But to stand before God (as you do whether you acknowledge it or not) one sees himself for what he truely is and his own sinfulness is exposed in the presence of the Holy.
You may be asking yourself at this point: “Just how exactly does this imply that to encourage another to be held accountable to man harmful?”
This is how: When the emphasis is placed on holding one another accountable and not primarily on love, then the spirit among believers shifts from one of encouragement in our struggles to one of judging and condemning each others actions.
There is certainly nothing wrong for bringing an noticed sin in a fellow believers life to his/her attention. That is a good thing. But it is nearly made impossible for one to recieve it because the instruction they’ve been given is to judge. And this produces pride.
The proud person will not and cannot recieve an admonishment. But that is not what we are even dealing with hear. We are dealing with something even more hostile. For the one who confronts the proud person has no understanding of how to admonish or edify another. No, they have been taught to judge. And the proud one is fully aware that he is being met by a spirit of judgement. So he retreats.
Only the Lord can break through the pride of a man. If one desires to be used by the Lord in this regard he must love. He must not judge. For the proud person is never totally unaware of his folly. But love is what breaks down the barrier. Judgement causes the proud man to fortify the wall that seperates himself from God and others. And since these others have been trained to judge, how much better to turn to the One who loves.
If we, who are prone to pride and rebellion, would initially see ourselves as standing before God; then each of us could encourage and edify one another to leave the judging to Him of whom we will give an account.